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Wednesday, 15 July 2020

Popular First Date Tips


Congratulations for you all. You have got the courage to ask special someone our, and they've said "yes". Now you have come to the real hard part. That is planning your first date.

I think this  situation will be agitated and nervous. You have to plan your date for having a great time and to show how much you're interested. But keep in mind that you also no need to look like you're trying too hard or investing a lot in something that may not work out.

To help to reduce your nervousness and to make an actual great date, I've turned out a research.

According to science, here's a detailed set of first date tips.


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1. Choose the Right First Date Location

The location that you select sets the tone for your date. Otherwise you already know what type of activities your date prefers,it's best pick a neutral, calm and quiet place where you can focus on getting know about each other and figure out how you connect well.

The last thing that you want to do is going to a nice restaurant and discover before your food has been brought out that you don't 'click' and it's not going to work. In this situation, you'll be stuck for the rest of the meal anyway. Can somebody say 'Awkward' ?

Trying a local bar or a hip new coffee shop is better than instead of dinner and a movie. The casual environment or the surrounding serves as a comfortable and more convenient place to engage in conversation without the pressure of dressing fancy or buying an expensive meal.

If you feels uncomfortable, you can leave just after the first drink or  it's better you hit it off and you are free to continue your date according to both of your preference.

As well as, the bustle of people around you is enough to make extroverts feel at home. Their brains flourish in busy environments without overwhelming introverts who prefer more intimate settings.

2. Prepare for an Engaging Conversation


If you are nervous or quiet, the most nerve wracking part of the first date is trying to engage in conversation with someone you barely know. Luckily, psychologists have discovered some keys to the perfect dating conversations.

Some studies reveal that if you're going on a date with a woman specially, you should forget the cheesy pick-up lines and decide for an attractive and fascinating conversation. Women tend to rate empty compliments and failed attempts at humour poorly. They attract mostly to dates which spark conversation topics that show they are intelligent, curious and cultured.
Don't you know how to do that?
One of the psychology professors in Northwestern University,  Dan McAdams studied what it takes to get to know about someone truly. He created a list of thirty six questions to help you to understand people on a deeper level.

These are there important ones to use on a first date:

Given the choice of anyone in the world, who would you want as a dinner guest?
What's your most treasured memory?
What would constitute a perfect day for you?
Feel free to change the phrasing of these. So they sound natural to you.

Actually, reciprocity is the key to a successful conversation in any context and it will help you to wow someone. When someone shares something or asks a question from you, always try to reply back by sharing a similar story or asking them the same question. It's courteous and keeps the conversation equal.


3. Get Your Mind Right

              Getting your mind right is one of the most important things to do before a date starts and before you leave the house. While you are unable to control compatibility or attraction,you can make sure you're mentally ready if they happen.

You have got your mind right before a date.

If we start our date with worthless or frustrated feelings, those will remain throughout the night. Actually no matter how much someone likes us and even shows us their feelings, it won't be enough to break through our own self doubt. That is why it's important to practice self-compassion before a date.

If the mere mention of self compassion made your eyes roll. It's easy to tell than doing. Sometimes it sounds too fluffy to be a worthy attempt. However it's been proven that practicing self-compassion can have an appreciable impact on our lives.

So, what do you mean by this when you are preparing for a big date? Practicing self-compassion facilitates you to obstruct contemplation on previous dating experiences that didn't go properly. That means you can realize that everyone is disappointed by dating and relationships sometimes. It means that any agitation or trepidation you feel prior to a date isn't a sign of something being wrong with you, but an understanding of feelings we all deal with time to time. Actually these experiences are the bonds that connect us all.

In other words, dating can be hard or  sometimes it can be painful. But the real hurtful aspect of dating isn't the experiences we endure and the way we internalize those experiences. Rather than blaming yourself, feeling unworthy or taking a pessimistic view of the future, there is the best thing to remember .When dating and relationships go right, it helps to change our lives instead of bad dating and bad relationships.

Allow yourself to expect the greatest thing and get ready for having fun.


4. Learn From the Past

If you had any hard time in the past due to bad dating experiences, aim on what you can learn from them instead of dwelling on the pessimism. Are you engaging in unkind or unfair behaviours during your previous dates? Have you anything that could have done to improve previous situations?

Eric Ravenscraft, writer at Lifehacker, could realize that he had enough strength to create better  and joyful experiences although he had too many bad dates. He reveals that learning to understand willingly and delightfully by yourself.

Have a look back at your previous dating experiences. What could they imply about you? Keep in mind, this is a chance to do some research to adopt your behaviours to the best level in your dating. No matter what happened in the past. Definitely you all have the strength to go forward to the maximum level.

5. Take a Deeper Look at How You Present Yourself

Understanding how others perceive you and the way you present yourself is more significant during and before a date. Actually the "before" stage is extremely crucial, if you are undertaking online dating.

Stylist Clinton Kelly and dating expert Devyn Simone address this every week on their show, Love at First Swipe. On the show they try to evaluate online profile of someone and allow the person to understand vibe they're giving off. More often than not, the person being profiled is shocked-never having understood that the vibe they are purposeful to give was nowhere near what people actually were receiving.

This situation is common and any person can face for this. According to the show, one of the best things to do is seeking outside help. Tell your companions to give their honest perception on your online profile or how you keep yourself together in real life situation and pay attention about the feedback. Why do you think they have the impression that they do? Why do you think that impression does or doesn't match up with what you intended? Why do you expect to give off the kind of impression you're going for and does it match with whom you really are on the inside.

It is important to keep in your mind that the entire picture your own will depend on the words you use to describe yourself in online, the pictures you post or the way you dress. So think again, is it possible to create your best counterpart properly through that picture?

6. Be Aware of Your Body Language

Having a deeper look at How you present yourself in the way of communicating both verbally and non-verbally. Actually your non-verbal things,  that means your body language and facial expressions are the most important thing of your communication.

In a real situation, sometimes it may happen out of your control - how can you aware of your body language and act natural? All it takes is catching negative body language. For example:

If you are interested in your dating, don't fold your arms. Tilt your head towards them and lean in. These are non-verbal actions that you can show your willingness of what they are telling and hearing more.

If you want to know whether your date is interested, look for similar behaviours. If their arms are crossed or their feet are facing away from you, it's better to change the topic.

Telling someone that you are not enough interested, you have to take an idea that your body is saying it too for them to internalize the message. If you want to send a positive vibe, let your body do the talking of you.

Three body language clues of attraction that work regardless of gender are given here.

A) Mirroring
 Mirroring is you elegantly copy the behaviours of the person you're with. If they shift or smile, you mirror those behaviours. A study by the Behavioural Science Institute in the Netherlands has revealed that we mimic the behaviours of the people who we attract more. Mirroring behaviours is a glorious way to unconsciously show them you're interested, if you struggle to express your feelings.

B) Fronting
Fronting is you face your entire body from head to toe towards your date. A research had revealed that unconsciously we point our toes in the direction we want to go. So, if your date stays engaging and pointing towards you, it's a considerable sign. But keep in mind that if their toes are aimed at the exit, they may not be having as good of a time as they appear to be.

C) Leaning
If you are standing against a bar or sitting across a table, your date leans towards to you and it's a clear sign to attract them and they will try to be closer to you. The opposite of this situation is also happened. That means when they sit far back in their chair or take a step back  from you, it shows their inconvenience with the conversation or environment.

Bonus Tip :  A fun study conducted by Purdue University found that sweet tastes make us feel more attractive. Likewise if you want to end your date with a powerful attraction, treat them with more lovable moments.


Friday, 15 May 2020

Popular Online Dating Activities For Men

Gents, It's your chance. Online dating opens up opportunities with new entryways from real-world dating tips. Using some of these ideas, try to spice up your matchmaking.

Popular Online Dating Activities


Looks, Count

Comment on how attractive and charming she is. Women are really fond of knowing that they are pretty and gorgeous even though you have no idea because they are in online and you are unable to see them. So when you are sharing ideas, ask some questions that help you to know about her, but in an unobtrusive way such as - which clothes do you prefer most?......how do you wear your hair?.....etc. Then you can tell how attractive and charming that looking.

Kindness Counts

Point out nice things or fine situations in life such as nice things that the other person has mentioned, good actions that person has done, good things on the news, etc. Be optimistic and forget all the headaches in life. Even a few letters in an email can hurt the people. So always try to show your kindness, gentleness, and good manners. Never show unkind remarks, harshness, prejudice, etc..via your communication and dedication for others.

So you can use some helpful real-world tips that work into your online dating relations. And come up with the positive side of romance and enjoy your life delightfully!

Wednesday, 15 April 2020

Online Date Guide

Online Date Guide

People have addicted to online dating and it works well. Of course, it is like a fish that is released to water. In general, women are horrifying to meet a man that she has been chatting with online. They have read and heard various scary experiences that have happened. Definitely, they have the right to be careful and protect themselves. That is not only wise but also very important. Therefore what is the duty of a nice guy? You have to show your truthfulness because you are not a sexual predator, a pervert or a libidinous person. You are actually a nice guy looking for "the" girl for you.



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  • Chat with patient

You must be patient enough to chat with her. You should not aim to get her personal information like her real name or living place. Continue your conversations lightly and joyfully until she feels comfortable to talk with you online. Do not be hurry to meet her face to face. Otherwise, she will think that you are a weird or a pervert. So be patient and again be patient.


  • Never lies

The details about your physical appearance and the job should be completely accurate. A good relationship will never be built on lies and deceit. At last, you will be in an unresolvable situation, if she finds out the truth.

  • Send many photos

Actually, a photo can highly influence to someone than thousands of words.  To show your truthfulness, send many photos of yourself by taking them while you are doing day to day activities. Remember to take full body shots instead of headshots. Definitely, if you were dating a girl in the real situation, she also would not like to see the headshots.


  • Make her feel that she is very safe

Imagine that you are lucky to have a face to face discussion for the first time in a public place during day hours and she has come with a friend. Then you have nothing to hide if you have told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen your photos. The most important thing is to make her feel that she is very safe when you are there.

Monday, 16 March 2020

So why do we date?

So why do we date?

On this planet, we all as humankind engaging in the mating habit. Most of the animals hook with their opposite sex to breed. They are participating in this process actually for reproducing their species, but we cannot imagine seducing bonds that tie them. This part is not fair for all animals; some animal species are out of this. A small percentage of that type of species does mating for their life with sentimental bonds.

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Of course, most of you may realize that as humans, all the animals have they are mating rituals. You have seen some male birds flaunt their plumages to attract their female. It is not only for dating, but also seduction is there.

  Due to seduction, we tend to date. Humans take a somewhat longer time to get the desired result in dating. Though humans are continuing dating, there is a specific time of the year for animals to engage in their dating and seduction. Apart from humans, all the animals without dolphins and some primates do dating for continuing their species but not for their pleasure. Actually, for most animals, it is the key to surviving as species.

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Think for a moment. As humans, we all are engaged in dating or seduction rituals for an unexpected level. Always we tend to impress someone since we like them very much and want to show our best for seduction by doing all the dating tricks and patterns than others.
So why do we date?

Dating is for especially impressing someone that we love. Of course, that's why the time and money are spent on that much.
Through this dating, we able to continue human species. Is it for that? I don't suppose so. Only a few humans want their babies to carry their family name from one generation to another.
Is dating for fun? If we meet and attract new people, it's fun, and it introduces us to new ways of thinking and approaching people.
Why do we date is a hard question to answer. You have various answers, but my point is that dating is a part of making humans.

Friday, 14 February 2020

Secrets to Successful Online Dating

People have addicted to online dating and it works well. Of course, it is like a fish that is released to water. In general, women are horrifying to meet a man that she has been chatting with online. They have read and heard various scary experiences that have happened. Definitely, they have the rights to be careful and protect themselves. That is not only wise but also very important. Therefore what is the duty of a nice guy? You have to show your truthfulness because you are not a sexual predator, a pervert or a libidinous person. You are actually a nice guy looking for "the" girl for you.

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You must be patient enough to chat with her. You should not aim to get her personal information like her real name or living place. Continue your conversations lightly and joyfully until she feels comfortable to talk with you online. Do not be hurry to meet her face to face. Otherwise, she will think that you are a weird or a pervert. So be patient and again be patient.
The details about your physical appearance and the job should be completely accurate. A good relationship will never be built on lies and deceit. At last, you will be in an unresolvable situation, if she finds out the truth.
Actually, a photo can highly influence to someone than thousands of words.  To show your truthfulness, send many photos of yourself by taking them while you are doing day to day activities. Remember to take full body shots instead of headshots. Definitely, if you were dating a girl in the real situation, she also would not like to see the headshots.
Imagine that you are lucky to have a face to face discussion for the first time in a public place during day hours and she has come with a friend. Then you have nothing to hide if you have told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen your photos. The most important thing is to make her feel that she is very safe when you are there.
We can identify some shy people who are around the world face many difficulties to make an open chat with new persons. Generally, additional time is required for them to adjust to the situation. The most convenient and straightforward answer for them is to go out to watch a movie on the first day. That is just for the presence of the new date without the obligation to talk. You may talk about the movie that both of you watched when you come out.
Another thing is that if you are shy to make a chat, ask your date on herself. It will be benefited for you to show that you are interested in knowing about her and that will help you to minimize the pressure of talking until you are more comfortable and relax. By making them talk, you may not feel stressful and at last, you will be comfortable enough to talk about yourself.
As well as you have to take into consideration that most of the people love to talk about their life very much. Actually with whom do they like to talk? Definitely, they like to talk with someone who will hear them attentively. Then if you are a good listener, you will find many people who feel satisfied with you.
Keep in your mind that you should do anything by keeping your shyness aside, otherwise it will keep you aside.


Thursday, 16 January 2020

Dating Tips - The Ultimate Dating Advice

In this modern world, everything is faster due to advanced technology. People are lucky to get most of the things that they want within a few seconds with better quality.

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Human interactions are getting lesser with the development of social skills. As a result, dating has become one of the biggest problems in modern society.
It occurs when we meet new people in our socialized places such as our home, school or office and have to face great difficulty. It is not easy to be exposed to new things on a frequent basis. Even when you come across new people, there is a hesitation on how to interact with them on the initial stage. However, you can get a date by yourself but the hardest of all these is how to continue it successfully.
Not only young people but also most of the people are frustrated about dating. That's why increasing the divorce rates day by day and convenience of living overseas creates a considerable growth of lonely single people who seek relationships and love.
In this article, I try to offer new guidance and advice. That means through this article, I emphasized some details from the beginning with the initial step of "how to meet new people" and go through all the possible situations that are related to the dating process.
Actually, we can conclude that dating is a game and it is a funny thing. That is the most important thing which keeps in mind. Some people consider dating as a mission to overcome or as a world that needs to be conquered. We have to remember that the outcomes of successfully dating are mainly the bliss of having another person to be with and enjoy mutual things with. Therefore the path that leads to this outcome should be equally enjoyable and satisfied. If you feel hurt or humiliated in this process, there is no purpose in going on dating the person who causes these feelings.
Certain qualities are needed for this world, which is sometimes difficult to gain without any practice. Keep in mind, that relationship is a game for two or more players. Therefore you have to play your part in order to win the game, but pay your attention to the others also.

Monday, 16 December 2019

The Advantages of Dating for Women Online dating

The Advantages of Dating for Women Online dating was a new-fashioned or brand new idea for the people in the 1990s. Most of the people didn't have their own PCs or even they hadn't access to the internet. Day by day, time has changed. Online dating is not only in the mainstream, but also it is the mainstream later.
Many reasons can be perceived for the remarkable growth of online dating sites and the number of people, men, and women of all ages, different races and religions that use it as their fundamental source for meeting new people and looking for "the one".
If you have any doubt about my opinion, get some ideas from your companions in the real world. If they are genuine and reliable, most of them will reveal you that they have or they are using online dating service.
Here are three agreeable reasons to sign up thousands of people for dating services daily.

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1. You can be anonymous.

     It is never essential to give your real name, address, e-mail address, phone number, or place of employment to another online user. Actually, you may so, but only at your own discretion and when you feel completely safe. You are not needed to post a photo of yourself. Posting a photo will add more responses to your profile. Therefore you are able to surf through the other members on the dating site that you have joined with complete anonymity.

2. You have so many choices in online that you do in your advanced and modernistic world.

Before the age that online dating began to spread, the choice of friends and even lifetime partners was limited to those we got in contact through college or work. No more... the world is your oyster. You can go through not only hundreds but also thousands of profiles to find out the "best" man for you.

3. The most important reason of all is the "safety factor".

Your personal details will never be revealed through an online dating service. You get to select who has that information and when they have it.